Apps like Feeld: the best polyamory alternatives

Feeld is often the first app polyamorous people try when the mainstream apps stop working for them. It is built for open-minded people of every kind, it lets partners link their profiles, and it is easy to start on a phone. It is also not the right fit for everyone. Some people want a service where loving more than one person is the shared starting point rather than one option among many; some want to use a laptop; some couples would rather not pay twice. If you are looking for apps like Feeld, this guide sets out the main alternatives and what each one does differently.

Facts about each service were taken from its own website, help pages or app store listing. Feeld, OkCupid and #open were rechecked on 4 November 2026; the others were checked on 16 October 2026 for our individual comparison pages. Features change, so confirm details with each service before deciding.

The alternatives at a glance

Why people look beyond Feeld

Feeld describes itself as a dating app for open-minded individuals. Its homepage lists intentions ranging from friendship and long-term connections to casual play, kinks and desires, and it offers relationship types including monogamy only. That breadth is exactly why many people love it. It is also why polyamorous people looking for committed partners sometimes find themselves explaining their structure to someone who wanted something else entirely.

A few practical points come up again and again. Feeld is a phone app, so there is no full browser version for people who prefer a keyboard or share devices at home. Its help pages state that Majestic, the paid membership, is bought per person, so a couple or polycule who all want paid features pay several times over. And because profiles lead with desires, people who want to start from relationship structure may find a different service makes those conversations easier.

Polyamory Contacts

Polyamory Contacts is built for one thing: helping polyamorous singles, couples and polycules find partners. Every profile assumes openness to more than one relationship, so first messages can go straight to what decides compatibility: nesting partners, kitchen-table or parallel styles, time and hopes.

Couples can share one profile, written in both voices, and a shared profile needs one membership. Partners who date independently keep individual profiles and name each other openly. The site runs in any web browser, with nothing to install, which suits people who want to write long messages on a laptop or keep a dating app off their home screen. Privacy tools include usernames, town-level location, photo control, instant blocking and optional ID and video verification. Prices are published: VIP costs $42.81 for 1 month in US dollars, and the pricing page lists every plan and currency.

The trade-off: there are no group chats and no events. Conversations are one-to-one, which many people prefer when getting to know someone, but polycules who want everyone in one thread will not find that here. Read the full Feeld comparison for a side-by-side view.

OkCupid

OkCupid is a mainstream dating service that takes open relationships seriously in one important way. Its Help Center explains that members can set their relationship type to non-monogamous, and that people who do so see only others who are non-monogamous or open to it. Partnered and married members can only set that relationship type. Profiles are detailed, with essays and matching questions, and OkCupid works on the web as well as in its app.

The limits are clear in the same Help Center article: one person per profile, no couple or joint profiles, and reported joint profiles may be deleted. Partner profile linking was retired in September 2023, so partners now mention each other in their profile essays instead. OkCupid suits polyamorous people who date independently and like long profiles; it does not suit couples who want to appear together. See the OkCupid comparison.

#open

The current status of #open is unclear, so check the app itself before you sign up or pay.

#open describes itself in its app store listing as a community app for open-minded individuals and couples, connecting singles, couples and polycules. It goes further than most dating apps on the in-person side: members can apply to private clubs and venues, buy event tickets and check in with a QR code. Paid extras sit in an optional #Open Plus upgrade, which the listing says includes seeing who likes you, up to five intros a day and unlimited likes.

The listing also makes clear that the culture spans swinging as well as polyamory, so expect a mix of intentions. Independent reviewers have reported a shutdown notice inside the app earlier in 2026 while the service kept running, so check the app itself for its current status before you invest time in a profile. Our #open comparison covers the details.

helloPOLY (formerly PolyFinda)

PolyFinda relaunched as helloPOLY in June 2026, and the old address now redirects to the new site. It was founded in Melbourne, has run events since 2014 and launched an app in 2017. Its new homepage presents dating as one part of a broader community, alongside curated gatherings and social mixers.

For people in and around Melbourne, that mix of events and dating can be a real advantage. Elsewhere, profiles and messaging matter more than events. The helloPOLY comparison explains the rebrand and the differences.

Taimi

Taimi is an LGBTQ+ dating app that welcomes polycule connections. Its privacy features stand out: stealth mode lets you browse incognito and share data only with people you have liked, screenshots of profiles are blocked, and private cards share images and thoughts only with people you approve. For queer polyamorous people who want identity to come first, it is worth a look. See the Taimi comparison.

3Fun

3Fun is an adults-only app for couples and singles. Couples share one synchronised account that both partners can chat from, group threads can include matches, and private photos are visible only to matches. It is often used for threesomes and encounters rather than ongoing relationships, which makes it closer to one side of Feeld than to a polyamory-first service. Read the 3Fun comparison for more.

How to choose

1. Start with your goal. If you want committed, loving relationships with more than one person, a polyamory-first service saves a lot of explaining. If you want exploration or encounters, Feeld or 3Fun may suit you better.
2. Decide how you appear as a couple. Shared profile, linked profiles or two separate ones? OkCupid allows only individuals; Feeld links profiles but charges per person; Polyamory Contacts allows one shared profile with one membership.
3. Think about devices. If you share a phone or tablet, or prefer typing on a keyboard, a browser-based service is easier to keep private.
4. Consider events. If meeting people in a room matters, #open and helloPOLY put events at the centre.
5. Check prices for everyone. Add up what each partner would pay before choosing.

Our checklist of what to look for in a polyamory dating app goes into each of these questions in more depth.

Using more than one app

Many people keep Feeld and one or two alternatives side by side while they work out where conversations feel easiest. That is reasonable, and it often shows you what you value. Keep your descriptions consistent, name your partners everywhere and be clear about what you want; polyamorous circles are small, and people notice when stories differ.

Frequently asked questions

What is the best app like Feeld for polyamory?

It depends on your goal. For committed polyamorous relationships, a polyamory-first site such as Polyamory Contacts avoids constant explaining. For exploration and kink, Feeld itself or 3Fun may suit you better.

Is there a Feeld alternative that works on a computer?

Yes. Polyamory Contacts runs in any web browser, and OkCupid has a website as well as an app.

Which Feeld alternatives allow couple profiles?

Polyamory Contacts allows one shared couple profile, and 3Fun offers a couple account both partners can use. OkCupid prohibits joint profiles.

Do couples pay twice on Feeld?

Feeld's help pages state that each linked partner buys their own Majestic membership. On Polyamory Contacts, a shared couple profile needs one membership.

Is OkCupid good for polyamorous dating?

It suits people who date independently, because you can set a non-monogamous relationship type and see others who share it. It does not allow couple profiles.

Are there Feeld alternatives with events?

Yes. #open includes event tickets and QR check-in, and helloPOLY runs curated gatherings centred on Melbourne.